Proud of thinking for myself, rather than mindlessly following norms.
Proud of standing up for what is right, rather than what is popular.
Proud of recognizing that these are not the same thing.
Proud of resisting authority.
Proud of having demonstrated tremendous courage in the face of overwhelming odds.
Proud of having moral beliefs that are objectively correct.
That’s what I’m proud of, to give just a few examples.
The real question is, what do you have to be proud of?
Because the last time I checked, being a mindless bully and bigot didn’t really meet the criteria.