bookmark_borderThe absolutely disgusting reaction to the Nottoway Plantation fire

Last week, the Nottoway Plantation, the largest antebellum home in America, burned down. Despite the efforts of firefighters, the historic home in Louisiana was a total loss.

This loss is heartbreaking. As someone who loves history, the destruction of any historical site, landmark, or artifact is painful. The destruction of such a large and significant historical home should be saddening to every person.

Yet an enormous number of people have reacted in the exact opposite manner. Horrifyingly, thousands upon thousands of people have responded not with heartbreak, but with celebration and laughter. “Let it burn,” proclaim well-known political commentators. “What a waste of water,” social media commenters jeer. On posts by various news outlets, the “laughing face” reaction is either the most or the second most common reaction. Tens and sometimes hundreds of thousands of sickening, gleeful reactions and comments contaminate every piece of content related to this tragic situation. I’ve tried as hard as I could not to read these comments, but I’ve glimpsed a few, and what I’ve seen has made me both sick to my stomach and overwhelmed with rage at the thought that thousands upon thousands of similar comments exist.

It must be made abundantly and unmistakably clear: these ways of reacting to the Nottoway Plantation fire are absolutely disgusting, despicable, and disgraceful. It is not okay to react in this manner. These emotional reactions are not valid, and they are not understandable. They are simply wrong. People who react in this way are bad people. Period. Full stop. No ifs, ands, or buts. In fact, I would go so far as to say that the “people” who react in this way are not even really people at all. They are lumps of flesh and bone with no consciousness, no mind, and no soul. It is impossible for a being with consciousness and thought to react in such a heartless, mean, cruel, and nasty manner. It is impossible for a being with consciousness and thought to demonstrate such a complete lack of empathy for those who see the world differently than they do. The people – or rather, excuses for people – who react with laughing faces and jeering comments accomplish nothing other than demonstrating their own abysmal character, their lack of capacity for rational thought, and their complete, utter, and abject moral bankruptcy.

Thinking about this situation, and seeing coverage of it, makes me feel angry and sick. My heart hurts. The trauma that I’ve experienced over the past five years is resurfacing painfully, and dark emotions are weighing heavily on me. It is the same toxic and mean-spirited ideology of black supremacism that has motivated both the statue genocide and these sickening reactions to the destruction of a historical site. I will write further about this gut-wrenching situation when the agony has receded to a manageable level and I am able to think more clearly. For now, it is enough to say that I condemn these celebratory and gleeful reactions fully, wholeheartedly, and as strongly as it is possible for a person to condemn something.

bookmark_borderNo, Ilhan Omar did not learn from people impacted by her words

I recently came across a social media post in which Rep. Ilhan Omar attacks President Trump for having “trafficked in hate your whole life” and also claims, “I learned from people impacted by my words.” 

I dispute both of these statements. 

First of all, how, exactly, has Trump “trafficked in hate”? Which of his public statements and policy positions constitute “trafficking in hate,” exactly? Because I can’t think of any.

Additionally, Omar claims to have learned from people impacted by her words. So she’s publicly condemned the tearing down, removal, and vandalism of statues of Christopher Columbus and people who fought for the Confederacy? She’s advocated that the people who tore down these statues be severely punished, that the statues be put back in their rightful places, and that the people harmed by these actions be financially compensated? She’s advocated that Indigenous Peoples’ Day be abolished, and that the second Monday in October return to being celebrated as Columbus Day in every city, town, and state? She’s apologized to the people harmed by the war on historical figures, by suppression of political dissent, by violation of Second Amendment rights, by mandatory medical procedures, by anti-white racism? I’m pretty sure that the answer to all of these questions is “no.” Yet if Omar had actually learned from the people impacted by her words, these are all things that she would be doing. So no, Omar has not learned from people impacted by her words, and I know this because I am such a person.

bookmark_borderCool mini statue of Donald Trump in the Oval Office

A cool statue capturing an iconic moment:

 

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Dismayingly but unsurprisingly, one intolerant bigot wrote in the comment section, “WTH is going on now? Does the freak show ever end?” Because God forbid that statues be made which depict cool moments in history. God forbid that anything cool, remarkable, or beautiful actually exist in the world. Can’t have that. Apparently, for anything cool to exist in the world constitutes a “freak show.” Only bland, mundane things are allowed to exist. Sounds sensible and logical. Not.

bookmark_border“Take one memorial down and we will build more…”

A message of hope from the Virginia Flaggers: 

 
 
 
 
 
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It makes my heart happy to know that there are other people out there who share the belief that people who fought back against authority deserve to be honored. Despite the efforts of authoritarian bullies to eradicate us, we still exist, and we still build memorials. Hopefully we always will.

bookmark_borderA sexual assault survivor’s wise words on vaccine mandates

“Our patience is wearing thin.”

Nearly four years after Joe Biden said these words, they still send a chill down my spine. I recently came across a Substack post from a writer called Holly MathNerd, which does a great job of articulating what was so disturbing about Biden’s speech:

“That speech triggered my PTSD from sexual assault. I sat there, slack-jawed and horrified, listening as the President of the United States — a male authority figure — declared that if I wanted to keep my job, I had to enter a room, remove part of my clothing, and have my body penetrated with a medical instrument of his choosing. My will and my consent were irrelevant.

He was making the rules. My body, his choice.”

You can read the rest here.

Although I myself am not a survivor of sexual assault, these words resonate with me. There is something about being told that you are required to have your body penetrated – and that you don’t have the right to opt out or decline – that is profoundly, enormously, and fundamentally wrong. Sickening. Horrifying. The right to control your own body is the most fundamental right that there is, but this right did not matter at all to Joe Biden and his supporters. In their eyes, my will and my consent were, indeed, irrelevant. For reasons that I will never be able to fully comprehend, Biden and his administration believed that when it comes to my body, what happens should be their choice. There are no words that can adequately explain how completely and utterly messed up that is. But Holly MathNerd’s explanation comes pretty close.

bookmark_borderWilliam Lewis Stone of Mecklenburg County, VA

Excellent post from the Virginia Flaggers explaining why they do what they do:

 
 
 
 
 
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I agree wholeheartedly with these sentiments. William Lewis Stone was a human being with thoughts, feelings, experiences, and a unique perspective. The same is true of each and every Confederate soldier. His life mattered, and theirs did as well.